23rd Aug 2020

Readings for this Sunday

Romans 12:1-8

I appeal to you therefore, brothers and sisters, by the mercies of God, to present your bodies as a living sacrifice, holy and acceptable to God, which is your spiritual worship. Do not be conformed to this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your minds, so that you may discern what is the will of God—what is good and acceptable and perfect. For by the grace given to me I say to everyone among you not to think of yourself more highly than you ought to think, but to think with sober judgment, each according to the measure of faith that God has assigned. For as in one body we have many members, and not all the members have the same function, so we, who are many, are one body in Christ, and individually we are members one of another. We have gifts that differ according to the grace given to us: prophecy, in proportion to faith; ministry, in ministering; the teacher, in teaching; the exhorter, in exhortation; the giver, in generosity; the leader, in diligence; the compassionate, in cheerfulness.

Matthew 16.13-20

13 Now when Jesus came into the district of Caesarea Philippi, he asked his disciples, “Who do people say that the Son of Man is?” 14 And they said, “Some say John the Baptist, but others Elijah, and still others Jeremiah or one of the prophets.” 15 He said to them, “But who do you say that I am?” 16 Simon Peter answered, “You are the Messiah, the Son of the living God.” 17 And Jesus answered him, “Blessed are you, Simon son of Jonah! For flesh and blood has not revealed this to you, but my Father in heaven. 18 And I tell you, you are Peter, and on this rock I will build my church, and the gates of Hades will not prevail against it. 19 I will give you the keys of the kingdom of heaven, and whatever you bind on earth will be bound in heaven, and whatever you loose on earth will be loosed in heaven.” 20 Then he sternly ordered the disciples not to tell anyone that he was the Messiah.

Collect for this Sunday

O God, you declare your almighty power most chiefly in showing mercy and pity; mercifully grant to us such a measure of your grace, that we, running the way of your commandments, may receive your gracious promises, and be made partakers of your heavenly treasure; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who is alive and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, now and for ever. Amen

Annual Parochial Church Meeting

Dear friends, the APCM for St Mary’s Kippington will be taking place on Sunday the 13th of September, following a shortened act of worship from 10:30am. I hope that, while we observe all appropriate social restrictions, people will be able to come and commend to God the life of the church and all those who have given of themselves in service to our fellowship.

It is with sadness that after a challenging and difficult interregnum, Sally and Sue have decided that they will not be standing again as churchwardens at this year’s APCM. I know that the congregation will want to express their thanks for all that they have done for the life of the church during their time in office, as I and Karen have personally as well for their kindness and help given to us during the brief time we have been with you.

The reality of the situation therefore is that I am seeking new churchwardens in what amounts to a noticeably short period of time – a request to people who don’t know me yet and I them!

A churchwarden is de facto appointed for one year only – as that appointment is always ratified at the next year’s APCM. Due to the Covid19 situation no church’s APCM’s could take place in April and all were delayed. However, in 2021 APCM’s will once again return to their traditional month and so churchwardens would only need to be prepared to stand for seven months.

I am therefore seeking colleagues, senior lay representatives of the church, who will support both me, this church and its family, and the new wider team during this period.

Colleagues who will guide and inform me, being new, on the life of the church and its parish.

Colleagues who will work with the Parochial Church Council to foster the management, maintenance and mission of the church. Seeking to maintain order and promoting peace and unity. Paying special attention to the specific needs of children, young people and vulnerable adults; ensuring that the parish has proper procedures for safeguarding, complaints and grievances; and working with the Archdeacon and Bishop in all things to do with parish and diocese.

I am mindful that the ask is a ‘big’ one from me and so would see it as important to spend time with anyone who wished to discuss the positions.

Please also note that we have three vacancies for PCC arising from one resignation and two where people’s terms of office have been completed.

Finally, there are Deanery Synod elections, with two places to be elected from this church.

The APCM papers and nomination forms can be either downloaded from our web site or found at the back of church.

Sevenoaks Deanery Prayer for Sunday 23rd of August

We are praying today for the fellowship of St George, Weald and for their Incumbent, Mandy Carr.

Thursday 10am Holy Communion

This service  will be resuming on Thursday 27th August. With apology, but Rev Mark had a meeting arranged for him for the 3rd of September. There will not be a service on that date, but then onwards from the 10th September.

Ride and Stride

We are pleased to note that the annual ‘Ride and Stride’ bike ride in aid of ‘Friends of Kent Churches’ will be taking place on Saturday 12th September from 10am to 6pm. Despite restrictions, the event will be taking place this year as in the present climate churches are more in need of funds that ever before. We are pleased and grateful that Martin and Carolyn are riding again on behalf of the fellowship and 50% of what they raise comes back to church. Sponsorship forms are at the back of church, as well as a stewarding form as we would like to keep our church open and manned just so to welcome people and sign their forms for cyclists who come. Thank you for your help.

Green light given to choirs to sing in church – but still no congregational singing

On the 17th August choirs are allowed to sing once more in church. This is excellent news of course. However, it cannot be an automatic return as practicalities need to be looked at. Mark and Len will be meeting to look into this return and then liaising with the PCC. We hope though that the choir returning to worship will take place very soon.

Services next Sunday – 30th August (Twelfth after Trinity)

8am Holy Communion (Book of Common Prayer)
10:30am Parish Communion (Common Worship)

Bible readings used: Romans 12: 9 – end & Matthew 16: 21 – end

Collections at services

Dear friends, as a reminder that, for the foreseeable future, there will be a retiring collection as  we can no longer pass the collection plate around. Thank you.

Visiting emphasis

From the 10th August, Mark has been and is visiting all those with roles across the three churches, as Team Rector, until the 4th September. The week of the 7th September he is then visiting all those who have been (and are) on the sick list, or who have been particularly vulnerable. General visiting begins from the 14th September to, firstly, members of this church’s fellowship.

If you need to contact Mark please email mark.bridgen@btinternet.com, or telephone 07375 299944 or 01732 452112.

If you have any concerns/worries/ideas/suggestions or know of anyone who is struggling, sick, bereaved or interested about the faith – please do speak to Mark.

14th Aug 2020

Reflection for the week ahead

In Matthew 6 the Message translation of the Bible reads:

‘Give your entire attention to what God is doing right now and don’t get worked up about what may or may not happen tomorrow’.

One of the great positives of life in lockdown was of being forced to wait in queues; taking time; giving full attention to standing two metres apart; waiting with patience before going down an aisle where two people were; smiling more; eyes making contact. Yes it was all rather strange of having to cross over the road, or even step into the middle of the road (minding the traffic as we did so) if a person was coming towards us - but we always responded to each other when this happened with a gentle laugh, a smile and a thank you.

The paradox in lockdown was that we became closer to one another even while we were moving further apart.

There is still some of that going on – the stepping into the road, the keeping the distance, the queues – but is it just me, or are we retreating back to life pre lockdown. The eyes to the ground; the lack of contact; no smiles and no acknowledgement?

We are all creatures of habit and seem to return to former ways so quickly.

Jesus says: “Give your attention to what God is doing right now.” How we do that is by trying to make each moment of our lives a positive moment for ourselves and others. As we still stand in the queues, keeping the distance, stepping into the middle of the road – all the time perhaps the eye contact, the acknowledgement, the smile.

Yes still moving away, but getting closer to the person as we do so. And getting closer to God in everything we do.

God bless.

Mark

Bible Readings for this Sunday – Tenth Sunday After Trinity (16th of August)

Romans 11: 1 – 2a and 29 – 32.
Matthew 15: 21 – 28.

Services this Sunday

8am Holy Communion taken from the Book of Common Prayer (Officiant Rev Sue; Note Rev Mark is taking the 8am Service of Communion at St. Luke’s.)
10:30am Morning Prayer from the Book of Common Prayer (Officiant Rev Mark)
(Note Rev Mark is preaching, via Zoom, at the online 9:30am service for St Mary’s, Riverhead)

The month of August

During this month Rev Mark is seeking to visit members of the three churches who have specific roles and tasks (e.g. PCC, Deputy Churchwardens, Safeguarding Officers, Lay Ministers, Pastoral Care Co-ordinators, Music, Children and Young People’s Leaders, etc). Due to the number of people having such roles, general visiting will start from the end of the first week of September.

Midweek Thursday Communion Service

The 10am service will be resuming on the 27th of August.

Services next Sunday – 23rd of August (Eleventh Sunday After Trinity)

8am Holy Communion
10:30am Parish Communion

1st Aug 2020

Dear Church Family,

We are in the midst of the most glorious summer weather and as we look around ourselves it seems hard to believe that the world continues to struggle with the pandemic. New spikes are appearing in many areas, both in the UK and abroad, and we do need to continue to take care and adhere to government guidelines, hard as that is at the moment.

As I was writing this, the words of Psalm 33v20-22 came to mind:

“We wait in hope for the Lord; He is our help and our shield. In him our hearts rejoice, For we trust in his holy name. May your unfailing love rest upon us, O Lord, Even as we put our hope in you.”

We are attaching a reflection from the Archdeacon of Tonbridge this week and want to remind you all that we have 8am Holy Communion tomorrow morning, and our first 10.30am family service on the lawn by the War Memorial. Do support those if at all possible. For the indoor service, it will now be imperative to wear a mask.

Finally, please hold Mark and his family in your prayers this week as they prepare for his institution next Saturday.

With every blessing,

Sally and Sue

25th Jul 2020

Dear Church Family,

We are excited that Mark Bridgen and his family arrived at the Vicarage safely on Tuesday, and after a couple of hiccups, seem to be settling in well to life in Sevenoaks. They have been overwhelmed by the kindness shown by all of us and the other churches and looking forward to meeting all the folk they now see in the photo book!

Mark's first service in Kippington will be on Sunday August 9th, when he will officiate at both the 8am Holy Communion and the 10.30am Common Worship. We do hope that as many of you as possible will be there, social distancing permitting, to make him and his family feel really welcome.

Bishop James reflections on the Gospel readings for Sunday 27 July, Matthew 13: 31f, in which we hear Jesus tell parables about what the Kingdom of Heaven is...

This weekend, we are attaching a reflection from the Bishop of Rochester for you to enjoy as well as a letter from Mark. There is also a link to something entitled 'Coffee Shop Sunday', which we hope you will all find inspiring.

At the 8am service at Kippington tomorrow, which will be led by Sue Fauchon-Jones, please remember to bring your own prayer books, if you have them, as only the Collect and the Readings will be printed out.

Next weekend, there will be 8am communion, again led by Sue, but also there is an outdoor family service planned, weather-permitting, at 10.30am. This will be led by Jean and will be a chance for the church family to meet Mark and his family, as they will be joining us all that day.

Jean will be sending out details of this service during the week, so please watch your inboxes.

This comes with our love to you all,

Sue and Sally

18th Jul 2020

Dear Church Family,

This is the last mailing we will be sending out before our new Rector arrives at the Vicarage, and although there will be a couple of weeks of settling in for them all before he is able to lead a service for us here at Kippington, I know there is an air of great excitement in the anticipation of something new amongst us.

Isaiah 43v18 is the verse that has sustained us all in the West Sevenoaks team:

“Forget the former things, do not dwell on the past.
See I am doing a new thing…..do you not perceive it?”

Let this verse be our watchword as we move into this new phase of life at Kippington.

On Sunday, we are opening for communion at 8am and we have attached a document highlighting the way the service will be run. For those of you who are planning on attending the service, do read it before coming, as many of your questions will then be answered. The following two Sundays we will have 8am communion, and on August 2nd we are hoping to have an outdoor family service as a means of welcoming Mark and his family. More details of this will follow, as guidelines are constantly changing as to what we are able to do.

Mark’s institution service on August 8th will be by invitation only, due to the Covid pandemic, but on Sunday 9th August Mark will preside at the 8am communion and lead Common Worship at 10.30am for the first time. We hope that those of you who feel able to come back to the church building will join us for this service, as it will be a wonderful opportunity for Mark to meet his new church family.

This week, we have attached a reflection from the Archdeacon of Bromley for you all to enjoy, and we’d also like to draw your attention to the marvellous anthems that Philip Wood and the choir have put together, which are now on the website.

With our love and blessings,

Sally and Sue

11th Jul 2020

Dear Church Family,

We are fast approaching the time when Rev. Mark Bridgen and his family will be ensconced in the vicarage, and a new era of life will begin at Kippington. This comes at a time when we are slowly beginning to come out of our lockdown and to consider how our world will be.  I feel it is a little like emerging from hibernation - we are a little loath to leave the cosiness and warmth of all that is familiar and also apprehensive as to what this new world will look like.

I attended a very interesting webinar this week on ‘Leadership in Lockdown’ and found it fascinating to hear and see how other churches have been coping with life during this pandemic. As we start our new team ministry we need to be aware of the possibilities and opportunities that this venture will bring.

Over the past months many of us have been challenged in our assumptions of what normal life is, and many questions have been raised as to how we live.  We have reconnected with our communities in a wonderful way, at the same time realising our increased fragility, both of ourselves and the planet on which we live.  There must be a better way for us to hold this all in balance and to reach out to the Sevenoaks community with the wonderful good news that we have in the gospel.  There has definitely been a stimulated interest in all matters relating to faith, and the church must be ready to respond to this.

A survey conducted by CPAS has said that as we emerge from lockdown, 80% of what we were doing before will return, but what of the 20% that won’t?  This is what we need to be concentrating our efforts on.

We don’t want to miss what God may be asking of us as we embark on our team ministry - keep on listening to God and thanking him for all he has done during this time.

Pray
Acknowledge reality
Utilise resources
Settle expectations
Explore possibilities

Remember, church has not ceased to be during the past 4 months, rather it has been merely operating in a different way.

Please continue to uphold all these things in prayer and don’t hesitate to get in touch with any ideas that you may have going forward.  Many of you have already responded to the letter we sent out a few weeks ago and we have been delighted to receive those, but others do get in touch if you have any ideas.

A reminder too to send in a photo of you and your family if you would like to be included in the photo book we are putting together for Mark.  This will need to be with Jeb by Wednesday of this week please.

Romans 15v13:  “May the God of hope fill you with all joy and peace as you trust in Him, so that you may overflow with hope by the power of the Holy Spirit.” 

Please enjoy the service that Joan has put together for us this weekend, together with the beautiful piece of music that Hazel Ross has sent specifically for the Kippington family.

With our love,

Sally and Sue

4th Jul 2020

Dear Church Family,

This week we are sending you a reflection that Archdeacon Julie Conalty has given us on the passage set for this week. Do take time to read it and reflect on it, as we all look forward to a return to church life in whatever form that will take.

We have made plans to open our church as from July 19th, but only for 8am communion. On 19th this will be led by Anne Bourne, and July 26th and Aug 2nd, Sue Fauchon-Jones will be the celebrant. You can rest assured that we are trying to proceed with discernment and the utmost caution and this seemed to be the most sensible option. We have many vulnerable and older folk in our congregation and we want to make sure everyone is accommodated as best we can. We will wait for Mark’s institution before restarting the 10.30am services.

As a result of these decisions, our church will be open during the week only on Thursday mornings for private prayer, 9am-12noon. This will give us enough time to thoroughly clean the church before opening it up on Sundays.

Mark and his family arrive in the Vicarage on July 21/22 and his institution will be on Saturday August 8th. As a welcome to him and a welcome to us all as we return back to Kippington as a church family, we are planning an outdoor family service on Sunday August 2nd. More details of this gathering will follow, but the vision is for an opportunity for as many of us as possible to be able to meet, within the social distancing guidelines, to thank God for all that he has done for us and to enjoy fellowship and friendship. We pray for fine weather and that many of you, young and old, will join us on that day.

Deuteronomy 6v5-7:
‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your strength.  These commandments that I give you today are to be upon your hearts.  Impress them on your children.  Talk about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.’

God bless

Sally and Sue

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